"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"You're so mean to me!"

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shortstop22

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I've read the bible, and I've already had a few hook-ups with HB 7. Now here is my question. Is there any hidden meaning when a girl comes up to you and says "Hey! You were so mean to me last night"

All I did at this party was just bust her chops, and I neg hit her because she's a HB 9.5, and guys treat her like a goddess should I pursue it? Or am I just looking into this too much.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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She was most likely being playful, and was really trying to flirt with you.

Yes, you're looking into it too much. Good job catching yourself on that. I need to work on not looking into things too much too. :)
 
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You should have made fun of her saying "your so mean to me".

She was testing you to see if you would say "I'm sorry it was just a joke, im an AFC just like all the other guys..........blah blah........"

Her saying that is a sign that you're different.

But did she say it in a playful or serious way?
 
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Usually it's a good thing when women say that you are "mean". She's probably flirting with you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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shortstop22

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thought so. she said it in a energetic high pitched tone, so it was most likely definite flirting. I'm going to go for it. Thanks guys
 
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i got the exact same thing the other day. jus play it cool, sometimes a lil seductive smile is all it takes. other times u might have to flip it around on her. theres sum meaning behind, why are u so mean to me . They're intrested, and there tryin to see what kinda guy u are, if u roll over she'l move on, espeically cause shes a 9 five ; just a little test of hers.
 
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