"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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your thought on mike tyson coming back

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Oh yes, watched a bit of Chris Barnard doing that on youtube. Great for layups in basketball...to develop that.
Saw him go from sitting to bounce right up in front of him on gym boxes.
Cool you can do that too.
Its not just great for basketball. Vertical leap shows explosive power. Great for sprinters, basketball, football and many other sports. The more power you have the more control you will have.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Its not just great for basketball. Vertical leap shows explosive power. Great for sprinters, basketball, football and many other sports. The more power you have the more control you will have.
Ha, I just thought of something, if I was "leaping" more at work my middle finger knuckle wouldn't feel like its broken right now.
My overweight amount of pounds is killing my grip for lifting up my body weight on something at work dozens of times a day.
If I could even "spring up" more I 'd be saving the strain. Going to try splaying out my grip more too.
 

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Watch this one

ummm, I watched using captions...I'll have to watch later.

Looks like he was charismatic and making people laugh.

I've seen a couple guys do that trick when caught up in a situation some people are dragging you over coals over something potentially humiliating.
Left them laughing, it will probably be a different video clip when I watch it with sound on later.
 

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ummm, I watched using captions...I'll have to watch later.

Looks like he was charismatic and making people laugh.

I've seen a couple guys do that trick when caught up in a situation some people are dragging you over coals over something potentially humiliating.
Left them laughing, it will probably be a different video clip when I watch it with sound on later.
I'm sure when it really happend Brad Pitt was shivtting himself in fear lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm sure when it really happend Brad Pitt was shivtting himself in fear lol
But if you saw Robin Givens avcount of it she was saying brad was "chill" about it. She was in great joy to CUCK Mike Tyson.
 

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Old man Tyson.
. This vid says a year ago. Explosive.
yes, whenever he's hitting there's that same sound. Explosive.

I was studying his back. There is a literal thick layer of muscle on his entire back.
I'm trying to remember which other athletes have this feature.

I miss watching Olympics with my Dad. I wish I could have watched Tyson with him. I would have loved his commentary and description of what he saw.
My Dad had muscles like this. He's the only muscular man I've known irl.
My Dad would have been 70 on Friday.
He always got a weeklong celebration because of his birthday so close to Father's Day.
Going to be challenging getting through this work week. I'm reaching out to my brother more.

I liked seeing Tyson's talent there. I can't believe I almost went my life not seeing someone box like that. Brought a tear to my eye, ngl.
 

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yes, whenever he's hitting there's that same sound. Explosive.

I was studying his back. There is a literal thick layer of muscle on his entire back.
I'm trying to remember which other athletes have this feature.

I miss watching Olympics with my Dad. I wish I could have watched Tyson with him. I would have loved his commentary and description of what he saw.
My Dad had muscles like this. He's the only muscular man I've known irl.
My Dad would have been 70 on Friday.
He always got a weeklong celebration because of his birthday so close to Father's Day.
Going to be challenging getting through this work week. I'm reaching out to my brother more.

I liked seeing Tyson's talent there. I can't believe I almost went my life not seeing someone box like that. Brought a tear to my eye, ngl.
They showed his feet. Try to find a vid from his prime and focus on his feet.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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They need to work on that. So all that explosion punching we see is "arm punches". . In his prime his punches started thru his feet with his quick jab steps and pivots.
Yeah, you're right.
That's why you said he 'leaped'. You saw that "springiness"
Society needs to invent synovial fluid rejuvenation clinics for joints. Pop in on your lunch break and get a synovial injection.
I was thinking this at work today too. lol
 

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Yeah, you're right.
That's why you said he 'leaped'. You saw that "springiness"
Society needs to invent synovial fluid rejuvenation clinics for joints. Pop in on your lunch break and get a synovial injection.
I was thinking this at work today too. lol
He doesn't need that. Boxing doesn't tear up the knees and ankles like football and basketball. He needs to get as lean as he was in his prime and practice footwork drills and explositivity with the weights ( squats and cleans ). Body fat dampens your quickness. When his body "feels better", he will be better. I think he can get 95% of that back.
 

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He doesn't need that. Boxing doesn't tear up the knees and ankles like football and basketball. He needs to get as lean as he was in his prime and practice footwork drills and explositivity with the weights ( squats and cleans ). Body fat dampens your quickness. When his body "feels better", he will be better. I think he can get 95% of that back.
He should stay within his original style under Cuz. Those fundamentals with wisdom will be a problem for opponents. His mindset needs to shift.
 

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He doesn't need that. Boxing doesn't tear up the knees and ankles like football and basketball. He needs to get as lean as he was in his prime and practice footwork drills and explositivity with the weights ( squats and cleans ). Body fat dampens your quickness. When his body "feels better", he will be better. I think he can get 95% of that back.
hmm. logical. Good plan.
1. Focus on need
2. get as lean as in prime
3.practice footwork drills
4.practice explosivity with squats and clean lifts
5. Keep body fat off to stay quick
6. get body feeling better to be better

That's optimistic, encouraging and helpful to say he'd get to 95%. Incredible to witness and would be an excellent role model for other 53 yr olds.
 

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hmm. logical. Good plan.
1. Focus on need
2. get as lean as in prime
3.practice footwork drills
4.practice explosivity with squats and clean lifts
5. Keep body fat off to stay quick
6. get body feeling better to be better

That's optimistic, encouraging and helpful to say he'd get to 95%. Incredible to witness and would be an excellent role model for other 53 yr olds.
He has a mental roladex that the younger cats cant have. The body is amazing. If you push it it will overcompensate and get stronger.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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