Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Purefilth

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djgirl said:
I will have to give them a call tomorrow. He is telling me karmas a b1tch and how much of a bad person i am and that ive broken his heart....its amazing to hear all this come out of a 37 year old man.......POF and other dating sites are not the way to meet decent men thats for sure.
:eek: :eek: :eek: Oh the Shock!:rock: - Almost as if theres not pages of material on number grabs and Smash&Dash work on there.

Clearly stated over and over and over that there are NO quality women on POF, and you thought "I wanna meet a 'Don Juan' - POF here I come".

Heres the secret... There IS NO SECRET!!! Internet dating is scraping the bottom of the barrel on both Genders. Thats why the Actual DJ's on here throw up a post on "Reverting to BETA game" for the humility and NEVER look for more than a fvck'n'chuck because thats all the people on there are worth anyway!


"But the TV said I can find love on the internet:("

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Greasy Pig's crystal ball is working very well.
 

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congrats. I'm surprised you actually listened to advice given here as most of the AFC guys would have probably done otherwise. Usually the right thing to do is always the most painful at that point in time but in the long run it returns results far greater.
 

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All she did was turn this guy into an orbiter. "Lets remain friends".

Why? Dude is clearly a Defcon Level 5, but she wants to keep him on the side? Get real. I'll never understand this "let's just be friends" crap. And she actually means it too.

Why not just tell him that it's not going anywhere and good luck with the rest of your life? I've had women say this to me and I've said it as well. Makes it much easier.

But she's gotta catch them all, like Pokemon.
 

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Kailex said:
All she did was turn this guy into an orbiter. "Lets remain friends".

Why? Dude is clearly a Defcon Level 5, but she wants to keep him on the side? Get real. I'll never understand this "let's just be friends" crap. And she actually means it too.

Why not just tell him that it's not going anywhere and good luck with the rest of your life? I've had women say this to me and I've said it as well. Makes it much easier.

But she's gotta catch them all, like Pokemon.
Thats just how women are. Throwing a dude in the friendzone is less confrontational and more beneficial to them than cutting him off completely.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I can write a 19 paragraph essay on this topic, but I'd rather keep it consice and to the point. Out of every internet/LDR that I have ever attempted to make happen, 100% of them failed due to distance and the other person lying. The truth is you do NOT know who you are talking to on the other end.

Take it from someone who's been Catfished twice. Do not pursue this relationship, you will be disappointed. I know it's a tough pill, but I believe beyond a shadow of a doubt that face to face, human to human is the ONLY way 2 people should start a romantic relationship. Good luck.
 

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VladPatton said:
I can write a 19 paragraph essay on this topic, but I'd rather keep it consice and to the point. Out of every internet/LDR that I have ever attempted to make happen, 100% of them failed due to distance and the other person lying. The truth is you do NOT know who you are talking to on the other end.

Take it from someone who's been Catfished twice. Do not pursue this relationship, you will be disappointed. I know it's a tough pill, but I believe beyond a shadow of a doubt that face to face, human to human is the ONLY way 2 people should start a romantic relationship. Good luck.
That's why you let the other person put in the work. If they put in the effort to come to you then you know they're probably legit and if not you lose nothing. However, yes there are alot of freaks online and its generally better to start things off in person.
 
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