"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Purefilth

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djgirl said:
I will have to give them a call tomorrow. He is telling me karmas a b1tch and how much of a bad person i am and that ive broken his heart....its amazing to hear all this come out of a 37 year old man.......POF and other dating sites are not the way to meet decent men thats for sure.
:eek: :eek: :eek: Oh the Shock!:rock: - Almost as if theres not pages of material on number grabs and Smash&Dash work on there.

Clearly stated over and over and over that there are NO quality women on POF, and you thought "I wanna meet a 'Don Juan' - POF here I come".

Heres the secret... There IS NO SECRET!!! Internet dating is scraping the bottom of the barrel on both Genders. Thats why the Actual DJ's on here throw up a post on "Reverting to BETA game" for the humility and NEVER look for more than a fvck'n'chuck because thats all the people on there are worth anyway!


"But the TV said I can find love on the internet:("

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Greasy Pig's crystal ball is working very well.
 

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congrats. I'm surprised you actually listened to advice given here as most of the AFC guys would have probably done otherwise. Usually the right thing to do is always the most painful at that point in time but in the long run it returns results far greater.
 

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All she did was turn this guy into an orbiter. "Lets remain friends".

Why? Dude is clearly a Defcon Level 5, but she wants to keep him on the side? Get real. I'll never understand this "let's just be friends" crap. And she actually means it too.

Why not just tell him that it's not going anywhere and good luck with the rest of your life? I've had women say this to me and I've said it as well. Makes it much easier.

But she's gotta catch them all, like Pokemon.
 

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Kailex said:
All she did was turn this guy into an orbiter. "Lets remain friends".

Why? Dude is clearly a Defcon Level 5, but she wants to keep him on the side? Get real. I'll never understand this "let's just be friends" crap. And she actually means it too.

Why not just tell him that it's not going anywhere and good luck with the rest of your life? I've had women say this to me and I've said it as well. Makes it much easier.

But she's gotta catch them all, like Pokemon.
Thats just how women are. Throwing a dude in the friendzone is less confrontational and more beneficial to them than cutting him off completely.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I can write a 19 paragraph essay on this topic, but I'd rather keep it consice and to the point. Out of every internet/LDR that I have ever attempted to make happen, 100% of them failed due to distance and the other person lying. The truth is you do NOT know who you are talking to on the other end.

Take it from someone who's been Catfished twice. Do not pursue this relationship, you will be disappointed. I know it's a tough pill, but I believe beyond a shadow of a doubt that face to face, human to human is the ONLY way 2 people should start a romantic relationship. Good luck.
 

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VladPatton said:
I can write a 19 paragraph essay on this topic, but I'd rather keep it consice and to the point. Out of every internet/LDR that I have ever attempted to make happen, 100% of them failed due to distance and the other person lying. The truth is you do NOT know who you are talking to on the other end.

Take it from someone who's been Catfished twice. Do not pursue this relationship, you will be disappointed. I know it's a tough pill, but I believe beyond a shadow of a doubt that face to face, human to human is the ONLY way 2 people should start a romantic relationship. Good luck.
That's why you let the other person put in the work. If they put in the effort to come to you then you know they're probably legit and if not you lose nothing. However, yes there are alot of freaks online and its generally better to start things off in person.
 
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