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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'd **** you :moon:1-800-HellNo
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this isn't me, but it's too funny not to post:
http://imgur.com/UZwFP2R
and in a way it will make everyone else feel better about their fails.
http://imgur.com/UZwFP2R
and in a way it will make everyone else feel better about their fails.
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TheWolfMan
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Lol, wow suddenly my texting doesn't seem so bad
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Uncharted
Master Don Juan
Haha I used to worry that my texts were dumb
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Hahaha this is great xD
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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BeDJ
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I think I once texted something like:
Me: hey HB let's go out for drinks on Tuesday
HB: Well I'm flattered but I have a serious boyfriend
Me: Why is he so serious? is he a boring librarian or something
HB: Haha no he's an accountant
Me: Even worse. If you ever want to have fun in your life give me a call
Then I had to sit through 12 weeks of class with her ignoring me. THAT was the cringe-worthy part. Sarcasm does not work over text.
Me: hey HB let's go out for drinks on Tuesday
HB: Well I'm flattered but I have a serious boyfriend
Me: Why is he so serious? is he a boring librarian or something
HB: Haha no he's an accountant
Me: Even worse. If you ever want to have fun in your life give me a call
Then I had to sit through 12 weeks of class with her ignoring me. THAT was the cringe-worthy part. Sarcasm does not work over text.
