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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I'd **** you :moon:1-800-HellNo
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this isn't me, but it's too funny not to post:
http://imgur.com/UZwFP2R
and in a way it will make everyone else feel better about their fails.
http://imgur.com/UZwFP2R
and in a way it will make everyone else feel better about their fails.
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TheWolfMan
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Lol, wow suddenly my texting doesn't seem so bad
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Uncharted
Master Don Juan
Haha I used to worry that my texts were dumb
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Hahaha this is great xD
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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BeDJ
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Master Don Juan
I think I once texted something like:
Me: hey HB let's go out for drinks on Tuesday
HB: Well I'm flattered but I have a serious boyfriend
Me: Why is he so serious? is he a boring librarian or something
HB: Haha no he's an accountant
Me: Even worse. If you ever want to have fun in your life give me a call
Then I had to sit through 12 weeks of class with her ignoring me. THAT was the cringe-worthy part. Sarcasm does not work over text.
Me: hey HB let's go out for drinks on Tuesday
HB: Well I'm flattered but I have a serious boyfriend
Me: Why is he so serious? is he a boring librarian or something
HB: Haha no he's an accountant
Me: Even worse. If you ever want to have fun in your life give me a call
Then I had to sit through 12 weeks of class with her ignoring me. THAT was the cringe-worthy part. Sarcasm does not work over text.
