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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'd **** you :moon:1-800-HellNo
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this isn't me, but it's too funny not to post:
http://imgur.com/UZwFP2R
and in a way it will make everyone else feel better about their fails.
http://imgur.com/UZwFP2R
and in a way it will make everyone else feel better about their fails.
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TheWolfMan
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Lol, wow suddenly my texting doesn't seem so bad
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Uncharted
Master Don Juan
Haha I used to worry that my texts were dumb
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Hahaha this is great xD
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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BeDJ
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I think I once texted something like:
Me: hey HB let's go out for drinks on Tuesday
HB: Well I'm flattered but I have a serious boyfriend
Me: Why is he so serious? is he a boring librarian or something
HB: Haha no he's an accountant
Me: Even worse. If you ever want to have fun in your life give me a call
Then I had to sit through 12 weeks of class with her ignoring me. THAT was the cringe-worthy part. Sarcasm does not work over text.
Me: hey HB let's go out for drinks on Tuesday
HB: Well I'm flattered but I have a serious boyfriend
Me: Why is he so serious? is he a boring librarian or something
HB: Haha no he's an accountant
Me: Even worse. If you ever want to have fun in your life give me a call
Then I had to sit through 12 weeks of class with her ignoring me. THAT was the cringe-worthy part. Sarcasm does not work over text.
