"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Your first kino attempt.

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I'm new to DJ-ing as you can tell.

Anyway, as I will try to attempt kino and other Dj principles with women, I would like to know on your experiences with this.

Your first attempt in kino?

Or if ye can't remember, what are tips you would give me on how to initiate first kino's.

I have read the entire DJ bible, and also the parts on kino, but it does'nt seem to say exactly when I should initiate it?

I would like to get the most out of the date I can by using Kino and all other principles I have learned...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I remember it like it was yesterday....waitaminute...it WAS yesterday! I touched her arm with my index finger and she totally freaked out, broke my arm in 2 places and I had to run away from the cops!

Lesson: NEVER use kino. Especially on girls.
 

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Originally posted by NINJA PIMP
I remember it like it was yesterday....waitaminute...it WAS yesterday! I touched her arm with my index finger and she totally freaked out, broke my arm in 2 places and I had to run away from the cops!

Lesson: NEVER use kino. Especially on girls.
If you nothing constructive to say just STFU you dont have to prove to anyone on the forum you are ****y and funny.
this is not bb.com
grow up
 

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I am so sorry if I shatted all over this thread.

TO seriously answer the question...kino should be something you do naturally..that is to say, you should not be thinking about it, simply touch her when you feel like it. Nothing bad will happen, I promise! (just avoid crotch/tits/ass and start light)

btw...What is bb.com?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Everyone has their own style. Kino is something you develop as part of your personality, not something you buy in cans.

I tend to prefer doing it during serious moments. I don't know why, but it works.
 

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My first Kino attempt was at a Religious Camp in my youth.

Seduced her without even knowing it!
(quite a long story, actually).

She wanted a shoulder massage, and I, knowing the art of massage therapy, volunteered.

Just to be a pimp (I was actually in it just to have her slap me.. heh), I started working my way down until I was massaging her breasts.
She enjoyed it, oddly enough. heh.

(She tackled me after that being in a sex-craze, and I denied her after. She liked me for 2 years henceforth, and we eventually dated. I broke it up after finding out she sucked in bed.. too bad though.. she was really fun.)

That was my first Keno.
 

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Kino is just touching.

Why do you get all act up about it?

Kino is giving hugs, tickling girls, stroking their arms, holding hands, playing footsie, grab em by the waist ect.

it's just TOUCHING!

It's a VERY normal human behavior.

As soon as you touch her - that's kino. how do you do that? You TOUCH her!

The only thing you should know is not to sexual harass her (as in grabing boobs, slapping asses - unless you know what you are doing) which is pretty fukkin common knowledge.
 

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Simple.

Men like touching women and talking about it.

Of course its common, so talk about it! ^_^
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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I was at the movies with this chick and I started my slightly touching her hand. It progresively got better until my hand was on her leg. It seems I was always a natural with kino. :)
 

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I think what Deezy's saying is that Kino is NOT a "technique". Especially if you go to other countries, people are a lot more physical with each other. The whole "sexual harassment" concept in this culture makes touching in general a taboo, something that seems foreign to socialization.
 

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The first time I used kino was probably when I was like @#12ing 13 years old. Oh wait, you mean after sosauve :D

I went into a club once with the intention of trying out kino, so I started dancing with girls and instead of having a mindlessly good time I focused on contact to 'test the waters' or whatever.

Then some wallflower punk AFC shoves me into her ass. She screams out and I think "@!#ing morons!"

:mad:
 

So Many Ways

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The first time I used KINO? Who knows, I think I was 11 or 12 years old or something. It's been pretty much second nature for a while now, since before I found this site.

When to initiate it? I guess it would be at a high note, when she's feeling good, laughing. Honestly I don't know how to explain it, you have to get used to being around women, socializing, and get used to engaging in physical contact and you will get a feel for how it works. I honestly don't know how to explain it.
 
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