"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Your first kino attempt.

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I'm new to DJ-ing as you can tell.

Anyway, as I will try to attempt kino and other Dj principles with women, I would like to know on your experiences with this.

Your first attempt in kino?

Or if ye can't remember, what are tips you would give me on how to initiate first kino's.

I have read the entire DJ bible, and also the parts on kino, but it does'nt seem to say exactly when I should initiate it?

I would like to get the most out of the date I can by using Kino and all other principles I have learned...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I remember it like it was yesterday....waitaminute...it WAS yesterday! I touched her arm with my index finger and she totally freaked out, broke my arm in 2 places and I had to run away from the cops!

Lesson: NEVER use kino. Especially on girls.
 

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Originally posted by NINJA PIMP
I remember it like it was yesterday....waitaminute...it WAS yesterday! I touched her arm with my index finger and she totally freaked out, broke my arm in 2 places and I had to run away from the cops!

Lesson: NEVER use kino. Especially on girls.
If you nothing constructive to say just STFU you dont have to prove to anyone on the forum you are ****y and funny.
this is not bb.com
grow up
 

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I am so sorry if I shatted all over this thread.

TO seriously answer the question...kino should be something you do naturally..that is to say, you should not be thinking about it, simply touch her when you feel like it. Nothing bad will happen, I promise! (just avoid crotch/tits/ass and start light)

btw...What is bb.com?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Everyone has their own style. Kino is something you develop as part of your personality, not something you buy in cans.

I tend to prefer doing it during serious moments. I don't know why, but it works.
 

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My first Kino attempt was at a Religious Camp in my youth.

Seduced her without even knowing it!
(quite a long story, actually).

She wanted a shoulder massage, and I, knowing the art of massage therapy, volunteered.

Just to be a pimp (I was actually in it just to have her slap me.. heh), I started working my way down until I was massaging her breasts.
She enjoyed it, oddly enough. heh.

(She tackled me after that being in a sex-craze, and I denied her after. She liked me for 2 years henceforth, and we eventually dated. I broke it up after finding out she sucked in bed.. too bad though.. she was really fun.)

That was my first Keno.
 

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Kino is just touching.

Why do you get all act up about it?

Kino is giving hugs, tickling girls, stroking their arms, holding hands, playing footsie, grab em by the waist ect.

it's just TOUCHING!

It's a VERY normal human behavior.

As soon as you touch her - that's kino. how do you do that? You TOUCH her!

The only thing you should know is not to sexual harass her (as in grabing boobs, slapping asses - unless you know what you are doing) which is pretty fukkin common knowledge.
 

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Simple.

Men like touching women and talking about it.

Of course its common, so talk about it! ^_^
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I was at the movies with this chick and I started my slightly touching her hand. It progresively got better until my hand was on her leg. It seems I was always a natural with kino. :)
 

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I think what Deezy's saying is that Kino is NOT a "technique". Especially if you go to other countries, people are a lot more physical with each other. The whole "sexual harassment" concept in this culture makes touching in general a taboo, something that seems foreign to socialization.
 

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The first time I used kino was probably when I was like @#12ing 13 years old. Oh wait, you mean after sosauve :D

I went into a club once with the intention of trying out kino, so I started dancing with girls and instead of having a mindlessly good time I focused on contact to 'test the waters' or whatever.

Then some wallflower punk AFC shoves me into her ass. She screams out and I think "@!#ing morons!"

:mad:
 

So Many Ways

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The first time I used KINO? Who knows, I think I was 11 or 12 years old or something. It's been pretty much second nature for a while now, since before I found this site.

When to initiate it? I guess it would be at a high note, when she's feeling good, laughing. Honestly I don't know how to explain it, you have to get used to being around women, socializing, and get used to engaging in physical contact and you will get a feel for how it works. I honestly don't know how to explain it.
 
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