chocococonut
Don Juan
What is your experience with girls that want to take things slow? hold off on sex in order to build a strong, lasting LTR?
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your experiences
- Thread starter chocococonut
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
What is your experience with girls that want to take things slow?
If she wants to wait until the second date to have sex, so that she feels like less of a wh0re, then that's fine with me.
If she wants to wait until the second date to have sex, so that she feels like less of a wh0re, then that's fine with me.
Scars
Master Don Juan
I think this can be taken two different ways.
One, she is scared to get hurt. You may have a reputation as a player, and she wants to make sure she's not just "some girl". It could also be to reinforce the belief in her head that shes not a "slvt".
Two, she has low interest and is playing you like a fiddle. Using you for emotional validation, but never plans to ever get physical with you.
Read her body language, and her eyes. It will tell you everything. A girl may have extreme high interest, and may be afraid she's going to lose you after sleeping with you (in this case, you need to lay down some serious rapport and comfort), or she simply has no intention of sleeping with you, ever.
Gage her interest level, and know where you are on her list of priorities. That is the key.
-Scars
One, she is scared to get hurt. You may have a reputation as a player, and she wants to make sure she's not just "some girl". It could also be to reinforce the belief in her head that shes not a "slvt".
Two, she has low interest and is playing you like a fiddle. Using you for emotional validation, but never plans to ever get physical with you.
Read her body language, and her eyes. It will tell you everything. A girl may have extreme high interest, and may be afraid she's going to lose you after sleeping with you (in this case, you need to lay down some serious rapport and comfort), or she simply has no intention of sleeping with you, ever.
Gage her interest level, and know where you are on her list of priorities. That is the key.
-Scars