chocococonut
Don Juan
What is your experience with girls that want to take things slow? hold off on sex in order to build a strong, lasting LTR?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
your experiences
- Thread starter chocococonut
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
What is your experience with girls that want to take things slow?
If she wants to wait until the second date to have sex, so that she feels like less of a wh0re, then that's fine with me.
If she wants to wait until the second date to have sex, so that she feels like less of a wh0re, then that's fine with me.
Scars
Master Don Juan
I think this can be taken two different ways.
One, she is scared to get hurt. You may have a reputation as a player, and she wants to make sure she's not just "some girl". It could also be to reinforce the belief in her head that shes not a "slvt".
Two, she has low interest and is playing you like a fiddle. Using you for emotional validation, but never plans to ever get physical with you.
Read her body language, and her eyes. It will tell you everything. A girl may have extreme high interest, and may be afraid she's going to lose you after sleeping with you (in this case, you need to lay down some serious rapport and comfort), or she simply has no intention of sleeping with you, ever.
Gage her interest level, and know where you are on her list of priorities. That is the key.
-Scars
One, she is scared to get hurt. You may have a reputation as a player, and she wants to make sure she's not just "some girl". It could also be to reinforce the belief in her head that shes not a "slvt".
Two, she has low interest and is playing you like a fiddle. Using you for emotional validation, but never plans to ever get physical with you.
Read her body language, and her eyes. It will tell you everything. A girl may have extreme high interest, and may be afraid she's going to lose you after sleeping with you (in this case, you need to lay down some serious rapport and comfort), or she simply has no intention of sleeping with you, ever.
Gage her interest level, and know where you are on her list of priorities. That is the key.
-Scars