chocococonut
Don Juan
What is your experience with girls that want to take things slow? hold off on sex in order to build a strong, lasting LTR?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
your experiences
- Thread starter chocococonut
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
What is your experience with girls that want to take things slow?
If she wants to wait until the second date to have sex, so that she feels like less of a wh0re, then that's fine with me.
If she wants to wait until the second date to have sex, so that she feels like less of a wh0re, then that's fine with me.
Scars
Master Don Juan
I think this can be taken two different ways.
One, she is scared to get hurt. You may have a reputation as a player, and she wants to make sure she's not just "some girl". It could also be to reinforce the belief in her head that shes not a "slvt".
Two, she has low interest and is playing you like a fiddle. Using you for emotional validation, but never plans to ever get physical with you.
Read her body language, and her eyes. It will tell you everything. A girl may have extreme high interest, and may be afraid she's going to lose you after sleeping with you (in this case, you need to lay down some serious rapport and comfort), or she simply has no intention of sleeping with you, ever.
Gage her interest level, and know where you are on her list of priorities. That is the key.
-Scars
One, she is scared to get hurt. You may have a reputation as a player, and she wants to make sure she's not just "some girl". It could also be to reinforce the belief in her head that shes not a "slvt".
Two, she has low interest and is playing you like a fiddle. Using you for emotional validation, but never plans to ever get physical with you.
Read her body language, and her eyes. It will tell you everything. A girl may have extreme high interest, and may be afraid she's going to lose you after sleeping with you (in this case, you need to lay down some serious rapport and comfort), or she simply has no intention of sleeping with you, ever.
Gage her interest level, and know where you are on her list of priorities. That is the key.
-Scars