chocococonut
Don Juan
What is your experience with girls that want to take things slow? hold off on sex in order to build a strong, lasting LTR?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
your experiences
- Thread starter chocococonut
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
What is your experience with girls that want to take things slow?
If she wants to wait until the second date to have sex, so that she feels like less of a wh0re, then that's fine with me.
If she wants to wait until the second date to have sex, so that she feels like less of a wh0re, then that's fine with me.
Scars
Master Don Juan
I think this can be taken two different ways.
One, she is scared to get hurt. You may have a reputation as a player, and she wants to make sure she's not just "some girl". It could also be to reinforce the belief in her head that shes not a "slvt".
Two, she has low interest and is playing you like a fiddle. Using you for emotional validation, but never plans to ever get physical with you.
Read her body language, and her eyes. It will tell you everything. A girl may have extreme high interest, and may be afraid she's going to lose you after sleeping with you (in this case, you need to lay down some serious rapport and comfort), or she simply has no intention of sleeping with you, ever.
Gage her interest level, and know where you are on her list of priorities. That is the key.
-Scars
One, she is scared to get hurt. You may have a reputation as a player, and she wants to make sure she's not just "some girl". It could also be to reinforce the belief in her head that shes not a "slvt".
Two, she has low interest and is playing you like a fiddle. Using you for emotional validation, but never plans to ever get physical with you.
Read her body language, and her eyes. It will tell you everything. A girl may have extreme high interest, and may be afraid she's going to lose you after sleeping with you (in this case, you need to lay down some serious rapport and comfort), or she simply has no intention of sleeping with you, ever.
Gage her interest level, and know where you are on her list of priorities. That is the key.
-Scars