"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Your experience when you hear "i turn 18 next month"

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so, this 17 year old chick goes into our break room and it was just me and her. She sits next to me as she writes her schedule for the following week and she just randomly says "i turn 18 next month".. (btw i'm still new at this ******** stuff, I am still a virgin myselff. Also, she does have a bf who lives 40 miles away")

SOOOO, to those who have "HEARD THIS LINE BEFORE from a girl who turns 18, is this a slam dunk?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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*Stretchs arm* A RANDOM girl sits beside you at WORK and RANDOMLY says she's turning 18 soon? And she has a BOYFRIEND and you're a VIRGIN.

No this is not a 'slam dunk'. Lol this is a girl excited to be 18.

If she had come in... wrote down her schedule, sat in your lap and said 'I turn 18 next month, so I'll be legal for you to ****'. Then yes I'd say you'd be in.
 
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we've talked before at work. She's not just some random girl, we've kinoed before, touched each other on the face, etc etc. And she would randomly come up to me to start a conversation. This isn't a joke and im not trolling, wtf is up with the forum members these days
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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The issue isn't the members... the issues are the questions lol.. One of the reasons I left is because it seemed everyone was giving counter productive advice... a sudden influx of AFC's made all teh advice AFCish... when ti was just a few at a time... then it was easy to talk to these people individually and explain to them, till the point where they weren't AFC's anymroe.... everyone now just says **** like 'If she touches your leg... should I kiss her?' or 'What does it mean when a girl says she likes your goldfish tank?'

Like its so rediculous lol. If you want serious advice from people with talent at this, you ened to set up your questions with a background, lots of detail and information. To me this just looked like what I said, some random event trying to call it a pickup. So screw the topic, you won't get anythign good out of it... but take this post to heart.
 
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they should make a new category here for AFCS/New Members. Kinda like for beginners
 
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verysuave said:
they should make a new category here for AFCS/New Members. Kinda like for beginners
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ABSOLUTELY

And I say this as a recovering AFC. If you post beginner stuff here you're liable to get all manner of "you pvssy" or "just get some balls"... which isn't exactly helpful for someone who gets nervous at the thought of just talking to a girl.

How about it, SoSuave?
 
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