"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Your experience when you hear "i turn 18 next month"

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so, this 17 year old chick goes into our break room and it was just me and her. She sits next to me as she writes her schedule for the following week and she just randomly says "i turn 18 next month".. (btw i'm still new at this ******** stuff, I am still a virgin myselff. Also, she does have a bf who lives 40 miles away")

SOOOO, to those who have "HEARD THIS LINE BEFORE from a girl who turns 18, is this a slam dunk?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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*Stretchs arm* A RANDOM girl sits beside you at WORK and RANDOMLY says she's turning 18 soon? And she has a BOYFRIEND and you're a VIRGIN.

No this is not a 'slam dunk'. Lol this is a girl excited to be 18.

If she had come in... wrote down her schedule, sat in your lap and said 'I turn 18 next month, so I'll be legal for you to ****'. Then yes I'd say you'd be in.
 
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we've talked before at work. She's not just some random girl, we've kinoed before, touched each other on the face, etc etc. And she would randomly come up to me to start a conversation. This isn't a joke and im not trolling, wtf is up with the forum members these days
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The issue isn't the members... the issues are the questions lol.. One of the reasons I left is because it seemed everyone was giving counter productive advice... a sudden influx of AFC's made all teh advice AFCish... when ti was just a few at a time... then it was easy to talk to these people individually and explain to them, till the point where they weren't AFC's anymroe.... everyone now just says **** like 'If she touches your leg... should I kiss her?' or 'What does it mean when a girl says she likes your goldfish tank?'

Like its so rediculous lol. If you want serious advice from people with talent at this, you ened to set up your questions with a background, lots of detail and information. To me this just looked like what I said, some random event trying to call it a pickup. So screw the topic, you won't get anythign good out of it... but take this post to heart.
 
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they should make a new category here for AFCS/New Members. Kinda like for beginners
 
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verysuave said:
they should make a new category here for AFCS/New Members. Kinda like for beginners
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ABSOLUTELY

And I say this as a recovering AFC. If you post beginner stuff here you're liable to get all manner of "you pvssy" or "just get some balls"... which isn't exactly helpful for someone who gets nervous at the thought of just talking to a girl.

How about it, SoSuave?
 
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