"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Your experience when you hear "i turn 18 next month"

verysuave

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so, this 17 year old chick goes into our break room and it was just me and her. She sits next to me as she writes her schedule for the following week and she just randomly says "i turn 18 next month".. (btw i'm still new at this ******** stuff, I am still a virgin myselff. Also, she does have a bf who lives 40 miles away")

SOOOO, to those who have "HEARD THIS LINE BEFORE from a girl who turns 18, is this a slam dunk?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bussey

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*Stretchs arm* A RANDOM girl sits beside you at WORK and RANDOMLY says she's turning 18 soon? And she has a BOYFRIEND and you're a VIRGIN.

No this is not a 'slam dunk'. Lol this is a girl excited to be 18.

If she had come in... wrote down her schedule, sat in your lap and said 'I turn 18 next month, so I'll be legal for you to ****'. Then yes I'd say you'd be in.
 

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we've talked before at work. She's not just some random girl, we've kinoed before, touched each other on the face, etc etc. And she would randomly come up to me to start a conversation. This isn't a joke and im not trolling, wtf is up with the forum members these days
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bussey

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The issue isn't the members... the issues are the questions lol.. One of the reasons I left is because it seemed everyone was giving counter productive advice... a sudden influx of AFC's made all teh advice AFCish... when ti was just a few at a time... then it was easy to talk to these people individually and explain to them, till the point where they weren't AFC's anymroe.... everyone now just says **** like 'If she touches your leg... should I kiss her?' or 'What does it mean when a girl says she likes your goldfish tank?'

Like its so rediculous lol. If you want serious advice from people with talent at this, you ened to set up your questions with a background, lots of detail and information. To me this just looked like what I said, some random event trying to call it a pickup. So screw the topic, you won't get anythign good out of it... but take this post to heart.
 

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they should make a new category here for AFCS/New Members. Kinda like for beginners
 

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verysuave said:
they should make a new category here for AFCS/New Members. Kinda like for beginners
ABSOLUTELY

And I say this as a recovering AFC. If you post beginner stuff here you're liable to get all manner of "you pvssy" or "just get some balls"... which isn't exactly helpful for someone who gets nervous at the thought of just talking to a girl.

How about it, SoSuave?
 
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