"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Your experience when you hear "i turn 18 next month"

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so, this 17 year old chick goes into our break room and it was just me and her. She sits next to me as she writes her schedule for the following week and she just randomly says "i turn 18 next month".. (btw i'm still new at this ******** stuff, I am still a virgin myselff. Also, she does have a bf who lives 40 miles away")

SOOOO, to those who have "HEARD THIS LINE BEFORE from a girl who turns 18, is this a slam dunk?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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*Stretchs arm* A RANDOM girl sits beside you at WORK and RANDOMLY says she's turning 18 soon? And she has a BOYFRIEND and you're a VIRGIN.

No this is not a 'slam dunk'. Lol this is a girl excited to be 18.

If she had come in... wrote down her schedule, sat in your lap and said 'I turn 18 next month, so I'll be legal for you to ****'. Then yes I'd say you'd be in.
 

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we've talked before at work. She's not just some random girl, we've kinoed before, touched each other on the face, etc etc. And she would randomly come up to me to start a conversation. This isn't a joke and im not trolling, wtf is up with the forum members these days
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The issue isn't the members... the issues are the questions lol.. One of the reasons I left is because it seemed everyone was giving counter productive advice... a sudden influx of AFC's made all teh advice AFCish... when ti was just a few at a time... then it was easy to talk to these people individually and explain to them, till the point where they weren't AFC's anymroe.... everyone now just says **** like 'If she touches your leg... should I kiss her?' or 'What does it mean when a girl says she likes your goldfish tank?'

Like its so rediculous lol. If you want serious advice from people with talent at this, you ened to set up your questions with a background, lots of detail and information. To me this just looked like what I said, some random event trying to call it a pickup. So screw the topic, you won't get anythign good out of it... but take this post to heart.
 

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they should make a new category here for AFCS/New Members. Kinda like for beginners
 

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verysuave said:
they should make a new category here for AFCS/New Members. Kinda like for beginners
ABSOLUTELY

And I say this as a recovering AFC. If you post beginner stuff here you're liable to get all manner of "you pvssy" or "just get some balls"... which isn't exactly helpful for someone who gets nervous at the thought of just talking to a girl.

How about it, SoSuave?
 
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