Theoneaboveall
Don Juan
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There goes my streak T-T. I won't lie,it was because I was fantasizing a lot.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
This thread has become all about how often you do or don't rub one out.My side goals are-
1. Be active.
2. Be a better writer and communicator.
3. And everyday I will write three things I did that day.
I will update everyday at 10 pm exact.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Thanks for the reply.This thread has become all about how often you do or don't rub one out.
Not the most compelling read.
Thanks for the great reply,such comments make this site worthwhile.Get your goals written down for the week/month. It helps a lot. Make an XP system if it helps, like 20 points for not masturbating all week, 5 points for every workout and so on an so forth, and make a goal of 100 points for the week. See if that helps.
Also, it seems that a lot of your energy and motivation comes from being successful with women.
Either focus on more important stuff and stop procrastinating all day or start meeting women.
I'd suggest the first option, but if you're too lazy, meet women to get charged and get some stuff done. At your age, you should be at your most productive/energetic self.
Bottom line: without hard work and discipline, you won't achieve anything.
Don't be a loser. You can do better.
And if prayer helps, explore it a little more. You might find out something quite life-changing.