Theoneaboveall
Don Juan
- Joined
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There goes my streak T-T. I won't lie,it was because I was fantasizing a lot.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
This thread has become all about how often you do or don't rub one out.My side goals are-
1. Be active.
2. Be a better writer and communicator.
3. And everyday I will write three things I did that day.
I will update everyday at 10 pm exact.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Thanks for the reply.This thread has become all about how often you do or don't rub one out.
Not the most compelling read.
Thanks for the great reply,such comments make this site worthwhile.Get your goals written down for the week/month. It helps a lot. Make an XP system if it helps, like 20 points for not masturbating all week, 5 points for every workout and so on an so forth, and make a goal of 100 points for the week. See if that helps.
Also, it seems that a lot of your energy and motivation comes from being successful with women.
Either focus on more important stuff and stop procrastinating all day or start meeting women.
I'd suggest the first option, but if you're too lazy, meet women to get charged and get some stuff done. At your age, you should be at your most productive/energetic self.
Bottom line: without hard work and discipline, you won't achieve anything.
Don't be a loser. You can do better.
And if prayer helps, explore it a little more. You might find out something quite life-changing.