You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"Going for style points"
They got a strong frame and sometimes you might have to jump through a few hoops to even continue to interaction and that's if you even wanna continue the interaction. He could also just tell them that they should wear all black.
Lol they ain't all hitting on you. my sister says I got a fat stomach and look like homer simpson and other guys call me fat but they ain't hitting on me. They may wanna have a interaction with you but doesn't mean they want your dik inside them and get married and have kids with you. They just think the guy should wear some colors in this case.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yes...anytime a random woman approaches you with something like that it means they are interested and you should push the convo further.
lol but no. You need to be around women more. Interested might mean talking to you. It might mean ****ing you. It might mean ****ing but not dating you. It might mean hooking you up with her friend and in order to do that they gotta break the ice with you. I've had girls ask me my age at work at they ain't interested in me as a boyfriend or even to **** at that point in time it's their friend that's interested in my looks and wants to find a guy her age to date. I've also had girls ask if I'm gay at school years ago to hook me up with their gay friends that were into me and the guy was a bit shy to ask me.
Dude are you hooking up with every girl that opens you? If you are you have sick game to overcome things like if girls who have boyfriends, your too old for her, your a relation/family of the girl, your too young for her, shes a hooker trying to get some money, and the rest. If what your saying is that all these girls/guys are into me and want my dik in their ass or pur c there's some real fuking perverts out there.
Several? They might be onto something. What kind of relationships do you have with these women?
actually come to think of i actually believe a certain % of people wants to fuk me but i just don't engage it further enough. sometimes for obvious reasons. women are probably just as big of perverts than men too mate. You might not hear of girls wanting to **** 2 guys behind her boyfriends back but it does happen. And just watch porn and the amount of women in it.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
They've known me for a while, romantic-sexual in some way or another. Help me with what?
With this
I'd guess you come off as abit boring and one-dimensional in your style. Ask yourself if they could have a point, or not?
Ich find schwarz bunt genug.
So they're throwing this so I'd be more entertaining to them because of the things I wear? Fvck that
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.