"You only wear black" - sh!t test?

[user252009]

I've had several women tell me that I only wear black and that I should wear colors. Of course I don't give a **** if they say that, but just wondering whether you'd say this is a sh!t test, or if you've also encountered this at some point.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I've had several women tell me that I only wear black and that I should wear colors. Of course I don't give a **** if they say that, but just wondering whether you'd say this is a sh!t test, or if you've also encountered this at some point.

"Going for style points"

Or

"Thanks for the tip"

Then immediately change the subject. Be unaffected as if you are listening to the opinion of a 5 year old kid.

 

[7onriverI f]

I normally say **** tests to girls and guys myself and they actually ask if i'm trying to offend them or just being funny. some might laugh but some don't see the humor in it and are actually offended. If I work that out I actually apologize if i offended them and I didn't mean to do such a thing. normally I get a all good from them.

I wouldn't take offence to the **** test because it's just the girls saying you should wear colors. Getting offended is giving a **** and is sending out bad vibes which will kill the interaction. Like I said you don't give a **** and the girls don't give a **** and are comfortable saying this stuff to you so you can just say anything that will keep the interaction going. You just just ingore it and ask a question or a statement not related to this. If your white skinned you can take off your shirt and say do you prefer this look. You can even say wanna go shopping and we can buy some color shirts and pants. Or you can just look at her in the eye and say nothing.

Just do anything to keep the interaction going. What results are you getting after they say this stuff to you? what results do you want?

 

[7onriverI f]

I always assume they are hitting on me. If a woman thought you were a poindexter they wouldn’t even talk to you or even think about your clothing.

So I generally see it as an approach.

They got a strong frame and sometimes you might have to jump through a few hoops to even continue to interaction and that's if you even wanna continue the interaction. He could also just tell them that they should wear all black.

I always assume they are hitting on me. If a woman thought you were a poindexter they wouldn’t even talk to you or even think about your clothing.

So I generally see it as an approach.

Lol they ain't all hitting on you. my sister says I got a fat stomach and look like homer simpson and other guys call me fat but they ain't hitting on me. They may wanna have a interaction with you but doesn't mean they want your dik inside them and get married and have kids with you. They just think the guy should wear some colors in this case.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

There was that one girl..... suspecting me to be into SM because i was all in black on 1st date..... she was wrong.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I always assume they are hitting on me. If a woman thought you were a poindexter they wouldn’t even talk to you or even think about your clothing.

So I generally see it as an approach.

Yes...anytime a random woman approaches you with something like that it means they are interested and you should push the convo further.

 

[7onriverI f]

Yes...anytime a random woman approaches you with something like that it means they are interested and you should push the convo further.

lol but no. You need to be around women more. Interested might mean talking to you. It might mean ****ing you. It might mean ****ing but not dating you. It might mean hooking you up with her friend and in order to do that they gotta break the ice with you. I've had girls ask me my age at work at they ain't interested in me as a boyfriend or even to **** at that point in time it's their friend that's interested in my looks and wants to find a guy her age to date. I've also had girls ask if I'm gay at school years ago to hook me up with their gay friends that were into me and the guy was a bit shy to ask me.

 

[7onriverI f]

You should really think about this harder.

Dude are you hooking up with every girl that opens you? If you are you have sick game to overcome things like if girls who have boyfriends, your too old for her, your a relation/family of the girl, your too young for her, shes a hooker trying to get some money, and the rest. If what your saying is that all these girls/guys are into me and want my dik in their ass or pur c there's some real fuking perverts out there.

 

[bcude]

I've had several women tell me that I only wear black and that I should wear colors.

Several? They might be onto something. What kind of relationships do you have with these women?
If they're complete strangers i'd treat it as a test. If you've seen them before i'd say they're trying to help you.

 

[7onriverI f]

Of course not. Lol. You are dealing with”men” being gay. Men fuk at the drop of a hat. Yeah they are perverts.
If you don’t assume they are hitting on you, how can you possibly engage the woman for sex? If all you cared about was dancing, turn your music up at your place and dance away. Save gas and cover charge. Duh. Never mind. Carry on.

actually come to think of i actually believe a certain % of people wants to fuk me but i just don't engage it further enough. sometimes for obvious reasons. women are probably just as big of perverts than men too mate. You might not hear of girls wanting to **** 2 guys behind her boyfriends back but it does happen. And just watch porn and the amount of women in it.

 

[Lookatu]

"Once you go black, you never go back..." say this while smirking at her.

 

[user252009]

Several? They might be onto something. What kind of relationships do you have with these women?
If they're complete strangers i'd treat it as a test. If you've seen them before i'd say they're trying to help you.

They've known me for a while, romantic-sexual in some way or another. Help me with what?

 

[bcude]

They've known me for a while, romantic-sexual in some way or another. Help me with what?

With this

Most women are better fashioned sensed then guys.

I'd guess you come off as abit boring and one-dimensional in your style. Ask yourself if they could have a point, or not?
I mean naturally always go after what you want and believe, but valid input should always be taken up for consideration and then you make a decision on what suits you the best.

 

[xplt]

I've had several women tell me that I only wear black and that I should wear colors. Of course I don't give a **** if they say that, but just wondering whether you'd say this is a sh!t test, or if you've also encountered this at some point.

Ich find schwarz bunt genug.

 

[user252009]

With this

I'd guess you come off as abit boring and one-dimensional in your style. Ask yourself if they could have a point, or not?
I mean naturally always go after what you want and believe, but valid input should always be taken up for consideration and then you make a decision on what suits you the best.

So they're throwing this so I'd be more entertaining to them because of the things I wear? Fvck that

 

[derby1]

"head of the addams family household, lets go electrocute people we dont like"