"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"you only want me for one thing"

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KontrollerX

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Yeah its total feminazi bullsh!t.

A guy can be just as used for sex as any woman.

Granted we typically don't mind but still the point remains.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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What do you do that makes them say that?
 

kingwilliam

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I'll meet a girl and we'll go out a few times, but obviously she's not the one. So does this mean I'm supposed to just say, "ok, see ya"

Hell no, I gotta get laid. I still take them out, buy them dinner, be nice to them...........what happened to the "friends with benefits" I used to maintain when I was a bit younger??

Oh well......its not that big of a deal to me.....just bored at my desk. Whats funny is that this chick told me that last night, yet she still came over and basically raped me.

HA! I think they just say it to make themselves feel better.........kinda like when they say "I normally don't do this" before they **** you on the first date....lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"how dissapointed would you be if I didn't want you for that one thing?"
 

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Exactly, I usually counter with a mocking "Yes, it's sooooo disappointing to have guys find you attractive"...

Or, "One day you'll be old n wrinkly, and probably fat, and no one will will want ya, and you'll look back and really regret not makin more of the times dudes used to dig ya"...

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My wife uses a variation of this sometimes:

"Agh, is sex all you ever think about?"

To which I say, "The time you'll need to worry, is when it's NOT the only thing I think about."

We usually end up in bed after this. :rolleyes:
 
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