kingwilliam
Senior Don Juan
I hate hearing this
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"you only want me for one thing"
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
KontrollerX
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Yeah its total feminazi bullsh!t.
A guy can be just as used for sex as any woman.
Granted we typically don't mind but still the point remains.
A guy can be just as used for sex as any woman.
Granted we typically don't mind but still the point remains.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
What do you do that makes them say that?
penkitten
Master Don Juan
should i make a list?Francisco d'Anconia said:
kingwilliam
Senior Don Juan
I'll meet a girl and we'll go out a few times, but obviously she's not the one. So does this mean I'm supposed to just say, "ok, see ya"
Hell no, I gotta get laid. I still take them out, buy them dinner, be nice to them...........what happened to the "friends with benefits" I used to maintain when I was a bit younger??
Oh well......its not that big of a deal to me.....just bored at my desk. Whats funny is that this chick told me that last night, yet she still came over and basically raped me.
HA! I think they just say it to make themselves feel better.........kinda like when they say "I normally don't do this" before they **** you on the first date....lol
Hell no, I gotta get laid. I still take them out, buy them dinner, be nice to them...........what happened to the "friends with benefits" I used to maintain when I was a bit younger??
Oh well......its not that big of a deal to me.....just bored at my desk. Whats funny is that this chick told me that last night, yet she still came over and basically raped me.
HA! I think they just say it to make themselves feel better.........kinda like when they say "I normally don't do this" before they **** you on the first date....lol
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
"how dissapointed would you be if I didn't want you for that one thing?"
Exactly, I usually counter with a mocking "Yes, it's sooooo disappointing to have guys find you attractive"...
Or, "One day you'll be old n wrinkly, and probably fat, and no one will will want ya, and you'll look back and really regret not makin more of the times dudes used to dig ya"...
Or, "One day you'll be old n wrinkly, and probably fat, and no one will will want ya, and you'll look back and really regret not makin more of the times dudes used to dig ya"...
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
My wife uses a variation of this sometimes:
"Agh, is sex all you ever think about?"
To which I say, "The time you'll need to worry, is when it's NOT the only thing I think about."
We usually end up in bed after this.
"Agh, is sex all you ever think about?"
To which I say, "The time you'll need to worry, is when it's NOT the only thing I think about."
We usually end up in bed after this.