kingwilliam
Senior Don Juan
I hate hearing this
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
"you only want me for one thing"
- Thread starter kingwilliam
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
KontrollerX
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Yeah its total feminazi bullsh!t.
A guy can be just as used for sex as any woman.
Granted we typically don't mind but still the point remains.
A guy can be just as used for sex as any woman.
Granted we typically don't mind but still the point remains.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
What do you do that makes them say that?
penkitten
Master Don Juan
should i make a list?Francisco d'Anconia said:
kingwilliam
Senior Don Juan
I'll meet a girl and we'll go out a few times, but obviously she's not the one. So does this mean I'm supposed to just say, "ok, see ya"
Hell no, I gotta get laid. I still take them out, buy them dinner, be nice to them...........what happened to the "friends with benefits" I used to maintain when I was a bit younger??
Oh well......its not that big of a deal to me.....just bored at my desk. Whats funny is that this chick told me that last night, yet she still came over and basically raped me.
HA! I think they just say it to make themselves feel better.........kinda like when they say "I normally don't do this" before they **** you on the first date....lol
Hell no, I gotta get laid. I still take them out, buy them dinner, be nice to them...........what happened to the "friends with benefits" I used to maintain when I was a bit younger??
Oh well......its not that big of a deal to me.....just bored at my desk. Whats funny is that this chick told me that last night, yet she still came over and basically raped me.
HA! I think they just say it to make themselves feel better.........kinda like when they say "I normally don't do this" before they **** you on the first date....lol
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
"how dissapointed would you be if I didn't want you for that one thing?"
Exactly, I usually counter with a mocking "Yes, it's sooooo disappointing to have guys find you attractive"...
Or, "One day you'll be old n wrinkly, and probably fat, and no one will will want ya, and you'll look back and really regret not makin more of the times dudes used to dig ya"...
Or, "One day you'll be old n wrinkly, and probably fat, and no one will will want ya, and you'll look back and really regret not makin more of the times dudes used to dig ya"...
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
My wife uses a variation of this sometimes:
"Agh, is sex all you ever think about?"
To which I say, "The time you'll need to worry, is when it's NOT the only thing I think about."
We usually end up in bed after this.
"Agh, is sex all you ever think about?"
To which I say, "The time you'll need to worry, is when it's NOT the only thing I think about."
We usually end up in bed after this.