"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"you only want me for one thing"

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KontrollerX

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Yeah its total feminazi bullsh!t.

A guy can be just as used for sex as any woman.

Granted we typically don't mind but still the point remains.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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What do you do that makes them say that?
 

kingwilliam

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I'll meet a girl and we'll go out a few times, but obviously she's not the one. So does this mean I'm supposed to just say, "ok, see ya"

Hell no, I gotta get laid. I still take them out, buy them dinner, be nice to them...........what happened to the "friends with benefits" I used to maintain when I was a bit younger??

Oh well......its not that big of a deal to me.....just bored at my desk. Whats funny is that this chick told me that last night, yet she still came over and basically raped me.

HA! I think they just say it to make themselves feel better.........kinda like when they say "I normally don't do this" before they **** you on the first date....lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"how dissapointed would you be if I didn't want you for that one thing?"
 

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Exactly, I usually counter with a mocking "Yes, it's sooooo disappointing to have guys find you attractive"...

Or, "One day you'll be old n wrinkly, and probably fat, and no one will will want ya, and you'll look back and really regret not makin more of the times dudes used to dig ya"...

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My wife uses a variation of this sometimes:

"Agh, is sex all you ever think about?"

To which I say, "The time you'll need to worry, is when it's NOT the only thing I think about."

We usually end up in bed after this. :rolleyes:
 
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