kingwilliam
Senior Don Juan
I hate hearing this
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"you only want me for one thing"
- Thread starter kingwilliam
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
KontrollerX
Master Don Juan
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Yeah its total feminazi bullsh!t.
A guy can be just as used for sex as any woman.
Granted we typically don't mind but still the point remains.
A guy can be just as used for sex as any woman.
Granted we typically don't mind but still the point remains.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
What do you do that makes them say that?
penkitten
Master Don Juan
should i make a list?Francisco d'Anconia said:
kingwilliam
Senior Don Juan
I'll meet a girl and we'll go out a few times, but obviously she's not the one. So does this mean I'm supposed to just say, "ok, see ya"
Hell no, I gotta get laid. I still take them out, buy them dinner, be nice to them...........what happened to the "friends with benefits" I used to maintain when I was a bit younger??
Oh well......its not that big of a deal to me.....just bored at my desk. Whats funny is that this chick told me that last night, yet she still came over and basically raped me.
HA! I think they just say it to make themselves feel better.........kinda like when they say "I normally don't do this" before they **** you on the first date....lol
Hell no, I gotta get laid. I still take them out, buy them dinner, be nice to them...........what happened to the "friends with benefits" I used to maintain when I was a bit younger??
Oh well......its not that big of a deal to me.....just bored at my desk. Whats funny is that this chick told me that last night, yet she still came over and basically raped me.
HA! I think they just say it to make themselves feel better.........kinda like when they say "I normally don't do this" before they **** you on the first date....lol
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
"how dissapointed would you be if I didn't want you for that one thing?"
Exactly, I usually counter with a mocking "Yes, it's sooooo disappointing to have guys find you attractive"...
Or, "One day you'll be old n wrinkly, and probably fat, and no one will will want ya, and you'll look back and really regret not makin more of the times dudes used to dig ya"...
Or, "One day you'll be old n wrinkly, and probably fat, and no one will will want ya, and you'll look back and really regret not makin more of the times dudes used to dig ya"...
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
My wife uses a variation of this sometimes:
"Agh, is sex all you ever think about?"
To which I say, "The time you'll need to worry, is when it's NOT the only thing I think about."
We usually end up in bed after this.
"Agh, is sex all you ever think about?"
To which I say, "The time you'll need to worry, is when it's NOT the only thing I think about."
We usually end up in bed after this.