She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SunnyD said:
Are you kidding me?? Girls naturally, who have long hair...wear it different all the time. Gets kind of boring wearing it down all the time. Changing it up has NOTHING to do with having issues...its like changing your earrings for godsake. I think I know a hell lot more than you do.Warrior74 said:How about, maybe I know what I'm talking about and you don't. Do you change yours every week? It's a product of an indecisive mind, people who can't make decisions and stick to them. Always wishing to be someone else instead of who they are and constantly unable to focus. Again. A personal example from someone I know personally. If you take offense maybe your the same sort of person.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
but it could be if you aren't around then she might be looking for d1ck somewhere else).:crackup:Warrior74 said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Did you date Iqqi?DJDamage said:1. When all her friends are guys.
2. When she does hard drugs or even smokes alot.
3. When she gets drunk alot and doesn't remember much the following morning.
4. When she sees a therapist or on some sort of medication.
5. When she is overweight or too skinny.
6. When she has outbursts of anger or she cries alot. Actually any emotion that she shows too much of then she got issues (I once knew a girl that smiled and laughed on everything I said, that was the creepiest thing ever).
7. When she lies alot.
8. When she doesn't want to fvck you at all or she wants to fvck all the time (the latter is not really an issue for the guy
9. When she complains and nags all the time.
10. When she wants to be in the centre of attention all the time.
11. When she wants to have the last word all the time.
I know a woman that is exactly as you have described, and she's now my ex-wife. She's so indecisive.Warrior74 said:How about, maybe I know what I'm talking about and you don't. Do you change yours every week? It's a product of an indecisive mind, people who can't make decisions and stick to them. Always wishing to be someone else instead of who they are and constantly unable to focus. Again. A personal example from someone I know personally. If you take offense maybe your the same sort of person.
HADUKEN!!!!:box:Magma said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
yep,playa99 said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.