Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
SunnyD said:
Are you kidding me?? Girls naturally, who have long hair...wear it different all the time. Gets kind of boring wearing it down all the time. Changing it up has NOTHING to do with having issues...its like changing your earrings for godsake. I think I know a hell lot more than you do.Warrior74 said:How about, maybe I know what I'm talking about and you don't. Do you change yours every week? It's a product of an indecisive mind, people who can't make decisions and stick to them. Always wishing to be someone else instead of who they are and constantly unable to focus. Again. A personal example from someone I know personally. If you take offense maybe your the same sort of person.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
but it could be if you aren't around then she might be looking for d1ck somewhere else).:crackup:Warrior74 said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Did you date Iqqi?DJDamage said:1. When all her friends are guys.
2. When she does hard drugs or even smokes alot.
3. When she gets drunk alot and doesn't remember much the following morning.
4. When she sees a therapist or on some sort of medication.
5. When she is overweight or too skinny.
6. When she has outbursts of anger or she cries alot. Actually any emotion that she shows too much of then she got issues (I once knew a girl that smiled and laughed on everything I said, that was the creepiest thing ever).
7. When she lies alot.
8. When she doesn't want to fvck you at all or she wants to fvck all the time (the latter is not really an issue for the guy
9. When she complains and nags all the time.
10. When she wants to be in the centre of attention all the time.
11. When she wants to have the last word all the time.
I know a woman that is exactly as you have described, and she's now my ex-wife. She's so indecisive.Warrior74 said:How about, maybe I know what I'm talking about and you don't. Do you change yours every week? It's a product of an indecisive mind, people who can't make decisions and stick to them. Always wishing to be someone else instead of who they are and constantly unable to focus. Again. A personal example from someone I know personally. If you take offense maybe your the same sort of person.
HADUKEN!!!!:box:Magma said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
yep,playa99 said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.