"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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You know she has issues when . . . (fill in the blank)

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This is a lighthearted thread that may also be insightful.

1. When she has no children, but refers to her pets as "The Kids."

Unless you want children, don't practice the rhythmic method with this hopeful incubator.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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1. she tells you upfront about her history of her father's sexual abuse, but then says she's really close with her Dad.
2. she has 3 cats.
3. she changes her hair style every week
4. her last boyfriend was an ex con and the only reason she broke up with him is because he's back in prison.
5. she likes anal on the first date


these are all from my real life experiences....(different girls though).
 

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Warrior74 said:
1. she tells you upfront about her history of her father's sexual abuse, but then says she's really close with her Dad.
2. she has 3 cats.
3. she changes her hair style every week
4. her last boyfriend was an ex con and the only reason she broke up with him is because he's back in prison.
5. she likes anal on the first date


these are all from my real life experiences....(different girls though).
Changes her hairstyle..?? What the heck does that have to do with "having issues??" Unless you mean changing her identity because she's running from the law.....
 

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Changes her hairstyle..?? What the heck does that have to do with "having issues??" Unless you mean changing her identity because she's running from the law.....

How about, maybe I know what I'm talking about and you don't. Do you change yours every week? It's a product of an indecisive mind, people who can't make decisions and stick to them. Always wishing to be someone else instead of who they are and constantly unable to focus. Again. A personal example from someone I know personally. If you take offense maybe your the same sort of person. :D
 

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Warrior74 said:
How about, maybe I know what I'm talking about and you don't. Do you change yours every week? It's a product of an indecisive mind, people who can't make decisions and stick to them. Always wishing to be someone else instead of who they are and constantly unable to focus. Again. A personal example from someone I know personally. If you take offense maybe your the same sort of person. :D
Are you kidding me?? Girls naturally, who have long hair...wear it different all the time. Gets kind of boring wearing it down all the time. Changing it up has NOTHING to do with having issues...its like changing your earrings for godsake. I think I know a hell lot more than you do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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baka. again. like I said. someone I know personally.. my personal experience. I don't think you were there. this girl didn't have long hair btw. I think you are just taking offense because of your gender and personal issues.
 

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when her ex hits her, yet she still wants to remain friends with him.
 

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1. When all her friends are guys.

2. When she does hard drugs or even smokes alot.

3. When she gets drunk alot and doesn't remember much the following morning.

4. When she sees a therapist or on some sort of medication.

5. When she is overweight or too skinny.

6. When she has outbursts of anger or she cries alot. Actually any emotion that she shows too much of then she got issues (I once knew a girl that smiled and laughed on everything I said, that was the creepiest thing ever).

7. When she lies alot.

8. When she doesn't want to fvck you at all or she wants to fvck all the time (the latter is not really an issue for the guy :D but it could be if you aren't around then she might be looking for d1ck somewhere else).

9. When she complains and nags all the time.

10. When she wants to be in the centre of attention all the time.

11. When she wants to have the last word all the time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJDamage said:
1. When all her friends are guys.

2. When she does hard drugs or even smokes alot.

3. When she gets drunk alot and doesn't remember much the following morning.

4. When she sees a therapist or on some sort of medication.

5. When she is overweight or too skinny.

6. When she has outbursts of anger or she cries alot. Actually any emotion that she shows too much of then she got issues (I once knew a girl that smiled and laughed on everything I said, that was the creepiest thing ever).

7. When she lies alot.

8. When she doesn't want to fvck you at all or she wants to fvck all the time (the latter is not really an issue for the guy :D but it could be if you aren't around then she might be looking for d1ck somewhere else).

9. When she complains and nags all the time.

10. When she wants to be in the centre of attention all the time.

11. When she wants to have the last word all the time.
Did you date Iqqi?
 

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Warrior74 said:
How about, maybe I know what I'm talking about and you don't. Do you change yours every week? It's a product of an indecisive mind, people who can't make decisions and stick to them. Always wishing to be someone else instead of who they are and constantly unable to focus. Again. A personal example from someone I know personally. If you take offense maybe your the same sort of person. :D
I know a woman that is exactly as you have described, and she's now my ex-wife. She's so indecisive.
 

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When she bleeds out of her vagina once a month and takes everything out on you.

YOU: Hey (NAME)!:D
HER: WHAT DO WANT?!
YOU: I was just saying hi...
HER: Well FCUK YOU! Can't you see my pvssy is bleeding right now?!
YOU: How was I supposed to see that?
HER: JUST...JUST...FCUK YOU!
 

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Everything DJDamage said along with,

1) She has a kid or kids by a different man yet wants you for the daddy

2) She 1st mentions how she hates her ex's only to bring them up in EVERY conversation.

3) She speaks in third person ALL THE TIME

4) She contiues to emoitional mood swings (aside from that ime of the month)

Hell with it lol ALL
 

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1.) Doesn't keep a clean room or likes cleanliness (Deal breaker for me gentlemen and I ain't talking about a little messy but I'm talking dead rat in the corner of the room dirty)

2.) Clingy (before a certain point it is alright, but past that point I'm running for the friggen hills)

3.) Tries to control everybody

4.) Very High Achiever of grades (can I say no social skills?)

5.) Parents tried to buy love instead of give it naturally

That list is all deal breakers for me

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1. launches vases at your head
2. punches you in the face
3. threatens to commit suicide if you end it

all of these happened to not me but my dad with his physco ex fiance

oh i forgot
4. throws mirrors at you
 

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playa99 said:
1. launches vases at your head
2. punches you in the face
3. threatens to commit suicide if you end it

all of these happened to not me but my dad with his physco ex fiance

oh i forgot
4. throws mirrors at you
yep,

6.) Chases you with fire (damn I was dumb)

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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