“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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you have 2 prospects at work, how do you choose.

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I know 2 chicks at where i used to work( my friend works their now), which I've built good rapport with. I've hung out with one seperately with her group of friends. I was thinking, I wanna pursue one chick, and keep the other on the backburner as a friend, in case if i was to date one, and didnt enjoy her company. As they will both know, if i was to date the other, whats the best method of doing this, and how can i keep the 2nd one still interested.

This also got me thinking, you have to beautiful hb 9.0 chicks sitting in some kind of waiting room, how would you personally choose which one to pursue, imagine they both had somewhat the same characteristics, roughly the same hair color,etc.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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completely depends on the situation. My approach would be to save the one you REALLY want for last. Going out with another chick, in a non-arrogant assholish way, will only increase her attraction for you.
 

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Alright, so you're telling me to save the best for last. Lets say I take chickA out to lunch and coffe on wednesday, how do i keep chickB(the one i REALLY want) interested, just take chickB out "just as friends" to a movie or something on friday?:confused: something tells me this wont work at all and i will end up with nothing.
 

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you have to remember, women don't make sense. Women are attracted to men with options.
 

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Advice for choosing between two girls

Always go for the one who makes the most money. :cool:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good idea, but they both work at a coffeshop!
Alright, so you're telling me to save the best for last. Lets say I take chickA out to lunch and coffee on wednesday, how do i keep chickB(the one i REALLY want) interested, just take chickB out "just as friends" to a movie or something on friday? something tells me this wont work at all and i will end up with nothing.
I wouldn't recommend taking either of them out for coffee if they work at a coffee shop
 
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