"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you have 2 prospects at work, how do you choose.

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I know 2 chicks at where i used to work( my friend works their now), which I've built good rapport with. I've hung out with one seperately with her group of friends. I was thinking, I wanna pursue one chick, and keep the other on the backburner as a friend, in case if i was to date one, and didnt enjoy her company. As they will both know, if i was to date the other, whats the best method of doing this, and how can i keep the 2nd one still interested.

This also got me thinking, you have to beautiful hb 9.0 chicks sitting in some kind of waiting room, how would you personally choose which one to pursue, imagine they both had somewhat the same characteristics, roughly the same hair color,etc.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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completely depends on the situation. My approach would be to save the one you REALLY want for last. Going out with another chick, in a non-arrogant assholish way, will only increase her attraction for you.
 
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Alright, so you're telling me to save the best for last. Lets say I take chickA out to lunch and coffe on wednesday, how do i keep chickB(the one i REALLY want) interested, just take chickB out "just as friends" to a movie or something on friday?:confused: something tells me this wont work at all and i will end up with nothing.
 
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you have to remember, women don't make sense. Women are attracted to men with options.
 
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Advice for choosing between two girls

Always go for the one who makes the most money. :cool:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good idea, but they both work at a coffeshop!
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Alright, so you're telling me to save the best for last. Lets say I take chickA out to lunch and coffee on wednesday, how do i keep chickB(the one i REALLY want) interested, just take chickB out "just as friends" to a movie or something on friday? something tells me this wont work at all and i will end up with nothing.
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I wouldn't recommend taking either of them out for coffee if they work at a coffee shop
 
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