"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you have 2 prospects at work, how do you choose.

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I know 2 chicks at where i used to work( my friend works their now), which I've built good rapport with. I've hung out with one seperately with her group of friends. I was thinking, I wanna pursue one chick, and keep the other on the backburner as a friend, in case if i was to date one, and didnt enjoy her company. As they will both know, if i was to date the other, whats the best method of doing this, and how can i keep the 2nd one still interested.

This also got me thinking, you have to beautiful hb 9.0 chicks sitting in some kind of waiting room, how would you personally choose which one to pursue, imagine they both had somewhat the same characteristics, roughly the same hair color,etc.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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completely depends on the situation. My approach would be to save the one you REALLY want for last. Going out with another chick, in a non-arrogant assholish way, will only increase her attraction for you.
 
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Alright, so you're telling me to save the best for last. Lets say I take chickA out to lunch and coffe on wednesday, how do i keep chickB(the one i REALLY want) interested, just take chickB out "just as friends" to a movie or something on friday?:confused: something tells me this wont work at all and i will end up with nothing.
 
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you have to remember, women don't make sense. Women are attracted to men with options.
 
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Advice for choosing between two girls

Always go for the one who makes the most money. :cool:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Good idea, but they both work at a coffeshop!
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Alright, so you're telling me to save the best for last. Lets say I take chickA out to lunch and coffee on wednesday, how do i keep chickB(the one i REALLY want) interested, just take chickB out "just as friends" to a movie or something on friday? something tells me this wont work at all and i will end up with nothing.
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I wouldn't recommend taking either of them out for coffee if they work at a coffee shop
 
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