"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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you have 2 prospects at work, how do you choose.

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I know 2 chicks at where i used to work( my friend works their now), which I've built good rapport with. I've hung out with one seperately with her group of friends. I was thinking, I wanna pursue one chick, and keep the other on the backburner as a friend, in case if i was to date one, and didnt enjoy her company. As they will both know, if i was to date the other, whats the best method of doing this, and how can i keep the 2nd one still interested.

This also got me thinking, you have to beautiful hb 9.0 chicks sitting in some kind of waiting room, how would you personally choose which one to pursue, imagine they both had somewhat the same characteristics, roughly the same hair color,etc.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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completely depends on the situation. My approach would be to save the one you REALLY want for last. Going out with another chick, in a non-arrogant assholish way, will only increase her attraction for you.
 
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Alright, so you're telling me to save the best for last. Lets say I take chickA out to lunch and coffe on wednesday, how do i keep chickB(the one i REALLY want) interested, just take chickB out "just as friends" to a movie or something on friday?:confused: something tells me this wont work at all and i will end up with nothing.
 
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you have to remember, women don't make sense. Women are attracted to men with options.
 
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Advice for choosing between two girls

Always go for the one who makes the most money. :cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Good idea, but they both work at a coffeshop!
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Alright, so you're telling me to save the best for last. Lets say I take chickA out to lunch and coffee on wednesday, how do i keep chickB(the one i REALLY want) interested, just take chickB out "just as friends" to a movie or something on friday? something tells me this wont work at all and i will end up with nothing.
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I wouldn't recommend taking either of them out for coffee if they work at a coffee shop
 
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