So going out with this girl this week and I thinking about trying to get her back to my place. This is the first time we're hanging out. The only prob I can see is that she has to work early the next day (like 6 am). Don't know how possible this is. Was thinking of us going skating in the early evening, then grab a drink. I'd invite her back to my place to watch a movie after that since I just got a new big screen tv. But don't know if she'll go for that last part since she needs to get up early plus I live on the opposite side of the city from her (although it's only 1 bus away).
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You guys think it's possible to f close a girl that needs to get up early?
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