So going out with this girl this week and I thinking about trying to get her back to my place. This is the first time we're hanging out. The only prob I can see is that she has to work early the next day (like 6 am). Don't know how possible this is. Was thinking of us going skating in the early evening, then grab a drink. I'd invite her back to my place to watch a movie after that since I just got a new big screen tv. But don't know if she'll go for that last part since she needs to get up early plus I live on the opposite side of the city from her (although it's only 1 bus away).
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You guys think it's possible to f close a girl that needs to get up early?
- Thread starter Kal0051
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Friendly warning: Stop trying to apply logic to an emotional event.
It's possible to F close a girl in any situation.
Give the girl a reason to f-close, and she'll f-close. She can call in late to work if she has to. That's her problem. Get her hormones worked up the right way, and she'd bang you in the back of a car at her grandpa's funeral. A little thing like getting up early for work isn't going to reverse thousands of years of natural instinct.
It's possible to F close a girl in any situation.
Give the girl a reason to f-close, and she'll f-close. She can call in late to work if she has to. That's her problem. Get her hormones worked up the right way, and she'd bang you in the back of a car at her grandpa's funeral. A little thing like getting up early for work isn't going to reverse thousands of years of natural instinct.
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If she wants it, she wants it. End of story.
Mantis Toboggan said:Friendly warning: Stop trying to apply logic to an emotional event.
This statement may sum up this entire website.
They should change
from sosuave.net to stoptryingtoapplylogictoanemotionalevent.com
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
the answer is YES YES YESKal0051 said:Lol, not trying to apply logic to a emotional event. Just getting your thoughts on the logistics.
I don't care if she has work in 3 minutes, thats the point.