"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You ever..set up fake text messages to yourself to spur interest?

Poonani Maker

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I've been doing this lately to eye-opening results. Today, for instance, had a hot honey pot Rich clean young girl perk up and get turned ON to me Right when I get hit with a text message I'd set up to go off when I knew I'd be around her. Instantaneous DHV, she believed that it was from another woman, and was latched on to me then. I know that this is devious as fvck, but it works! Be-cause these superficial airhead b!tchez (yes, even the rich "highly" educated ones)...all they care about is social status or who's who and they erroneously Think that just because they hear (possibly read it if nosy) me getting texted that I somehow am highly desired or important at that particular time.

Also, on another note, I was more myself back in July/Aug of 2010, and I had a b!tch i'd fvcked then tell me that she didn't like the way I talked about other women. From then on, I changed my speech patterns and the way I speak about other women (not as graphic), and now I wish I hadn't changed, because I know that back then, I was a lot funnier naturally. Now I speak as if that same woman is always looking over my shoulder testing me or criticizing me. I wish that at that time when she'd said that to me that I'd said, "I don't give a fvck what you think about how I talk about other women...I really don't..." She'd told me this Right after I'd fvcked her so I was, in a sense, appeasing her, so that I'd be in her good graces to fvck her again (she was hot with C++ taught hooters, just perfect as can be). I wish that I could regain my old self after a couple of years of my restrained self watching what I say all the time about other women in the presence of other women. I wish that I could revert back. I wish I'd rebuked her back then and kept on my freedom of speech course. My goal over the next month or so is to regain that free-mindedness that I let that hoe sh!t-test me into snuffing the fire out of/on.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yup pre-selection is crazy. I discovered the concept by accidentally when I would get calls from girls while on dates.
 

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Mauser96 said:
How do you have a text sent to yourself?
I'd like to know this also.
Also, what do you say if she asks who it is?

That said, I don't like the dishonesty of it.
It seems kind of try hard really, plus I like to keep things simple.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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