"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You ever..set up fake text messages to yourself to spur interest?

Poonani Maker

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I've been doing this lately to eye-opening results. Today, for instance, had a hot honey pot Rich clean young girl perk up and get turned ON to me Right when I get hit with a text message I'd set up to go off when I knew I'd be around her. Instantaneous DHV, she believed that it was from another woman, and was latched on to me then. I know that this is devious as fvck, but it works! Be-cause these superficial airhead b!tchez (yes, even the rich "highly" educated ones)...all they care about is social status or who's who and they erroneously Think that just because they hear (possibly read it if nosy) me getting texted that I somehow am highly desired or important at that particular time.

Also, on another note, I was more myself back in July/Aug of 2010, and I had a b!tch i'd fvcked then tell me that she didn't like the way I talked about other women. From then on, I changed my speech patterns and the way I speak about other women (not as graphic), and now I wish I hadn't changed, because I know that back then, I was a lot funnier naturally. Now I speak as if that same woman is always looking over my shoulder testing me or criticizing me. I wish that at that time when she'd said that to me that I'd said, "I don't give a fvck what you think about how I talk about other women...I really don't..." She'd told me this Right after I'd fvcked her so I was, in a sense, appeasing her, so that I'd be in her good graces to fvck her again (she was hot with C++ taught hooters, just perfect as can be). I wish that I could regain my old self after a couple of years of my restrained self watching what I say all the time about other women in the presence of other women. I wish that I could revert back. I wish I'd rebuked her back then and kept on my freedom of speech course. My goal over the next month or so is to regain that free-mindedness that I let that hoe sh!t-test me into snuffing the fire out of/on.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yup pre-selection is crazy. I discovered the concept by accidentally when I would get calls from girls while on dates.
 

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Mauser96 said:
How do you have a text sent to yourself?
I'd like to know this also.
Also, what do you say if she asks who it is?

That said, I don't like the dishonesty of it.
It seems kind of try hard really, plus I like to keep things simple.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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