Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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You ever..set up fake text messages to yourself to spur interest?

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I've been doing this lately to eye-opening results. Today, for instance, had a hot honey pot Rich clean young girl perk up and get turned ON to me Right when I get hit with a text message I'd set up to go off when I knew I'd be around her. Instantaneous DHV, she believed that it was from another woman, and was latched on to me then. I know that this is devious as fvck, but it works! Be-cause these superficial airhead b!tchez (yes, even the rich "highly" educated ones)...all they care about is social status or who's who and they erroneously Think that just because they hear (possibly read it if nosy) me getting texted that I somehow am highly desired or important at that particular time.

Also, on another note, I was more myself back in July/Aug of 2010, and I had a b!tch i'd fvcked then tell me that she didn't like the way I talked about other women. From then on, I changed my speech patterns and the way I speak about other women (not as graphic), and now I wish I hadn't changed, because I know that back then, I was a lot funnier naturally. Now I speak as if that same woman is always looking over my shoulder testing me or criticizing me. I wish that at that time when she'd said that to me that I'd said, "I don't give a fvck what you think about how I talk about other women...I really don't..." She'd told me this Right after I'd fvcked her so I was, in a sense, appeasing her, so that I'd be in her good graces to fvck her again (she was hot with C++ taught hooters, just perfect as can be). I wish that I could regain my old self after a couple of years of my restrained self watching what I say all the time about other women in the presence of other women. I wish that I could revert back. I wish I'd rebuked her back then and kept on my freedom of speech course. My goal over the next month or so is to regain that free-mindedness that I let that hoe sh!t-test me into snuffing the fire out of/on.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yup pre-selection is crazy. I discovered the concept by accidentally when I would get calls from girls while on dates.
 

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Mauser96 said:
How do you have a text sent to yourself?
I'd like to know this also.
Also, what do you say if she asks who it is?

That said, I don't like the dishonesty of it.
It seems kind of try hard really, plus I like to keep things simple.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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