"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you drop the chick after 2-3 dates if she doesnt put out

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okay, i understand that part but now, what do you mean EXACTLY if she doesn't put out??

put out meaning,

she doesn't escalate to your sexual advances?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sheesh.............yes If She Is Hesitant........time To Put Her Out......of Your Life.
 
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I disagree. Sure, some guys will next her cause he hasn't fvcked a girl with in the first couple dates. But, from a few of my previous fvck buddies. It took a week or two before I started fvcking them. Patience can be the key to getting pvssy. Not all women are hors and put out quickly.

I would say if she isn't showing good interest after the first few dates; drop her.
 
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If you can't tell if you two have chemistry by date three, you're out of touch.
 
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That last 4 or so women i have dated wanted to put out before i did, which is usually on the first date.

but anyway unless i know shes a virgin, I'd wait til probably the 5th date before i start thinking what the ****. But if shes being a stupid ***** ****blocker, **** that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Charlie's Magic Solution:

DTOW... DATE Ten Other Women! :)


Seriously, you've got to be the judge of this stuff. Experience helps. Don't look to the peanut gallery for advice on handling the warm, beautiful woman in front of you. You've got to be spontaneous and confident. Women can sense it if you are neither of the above and that in and of itself will be the deal breaker!

You decide what you want. Maybe you're in a hurry to get to sex. Maybe you want an emotional connection. Maybe you're just happy to fool around with her or sleep next to her. You decide what you can and cannot do without in this relationship and base your decision on that.

Don't let these anonymous forum posters define "putting out" for you. Not every worthwhile relationship (and I use that term loosely) starts off hot and heavy. Some relationships take their time and others get off to a bang. Depends on the participants.


One criticism I have of my earlier years is that I lacked patience and optimism - I always assumed the worst and ran away from what could have been satisfying friendships, sex, and possibly more. Then again, there have been times when I was seeing someone and we were both aware of how it was going nowhere. Moving on was a good decision. How do you decide? Experience. DTOW.
 
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Damn, it shouldn't even take a date to get laid. Before I got married
 
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Damn, it shouldn't even take a date to get laid. Before I got married :D, my mind set was "She'll only lay in my bed once before getting fvcked".

The first night will be their familiarization to my room and bed. The second night, you bets believe she's getting fvcked.
 
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The first night will be their familiarization to my room and bed. The second night, you bets believe she's getting fvcked.
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Impressive given you have the skill. Frightening if taken out of context.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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