"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
you drop the chick after 2-3 dates if she doesnt put out
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
I would say if she isn't showing good interest after the first few dates; drop her.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
but anyway unless i know shes a virgin, I'd wait til probably the 5th date before i start thinking what the ****. But if shes being a stupid ***** ****blocker, **** that.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Charlie Gordon
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DTOW... DATE Ten Other Women!
Seriously, you've got to be the judge of this stuff. Experience helps. Don't look to the peanut gallery for advice on handling the warm, beautiful woman in front of you. You've got to be spontaneous and confident. Women can sense it if you are neither of the above and that in and of itself will be the deal breaker!
You decide what you want. Maybe you're in a hurry to get to sex. Maybe you want an emotional connection. Maybe you're just happy to fool around with her or sleep next to her. You decide what you can and cannot do without in this relationship and base your decision on that.
Don't let these anonymous forum posters define "putting out" for you. Not every worthwhile relationship (and I use that term loosely) starts off hot and heavy. Some relationships take their time and others get off to a bang. Depends on the participants.
One criticism I have of my earlier years is that I lacked patience and optimism - I always assumed the worst and ran away from what could have been satisfying friendships, sex, and possibly more. Then again, there have been times when I was seeing someone and we were both aware of how it was going nowhere. Moving on was a good decision. How do you decide? Experience. DTOW.
Faded Image
Senior Don Juan
Faded Image
Senior Don Juan
, my mind set was "She'll only lay in my bed once before getting fvcked". The first night will be their familiarization to my room and bed. The second night, you bets believe she's getting fvcked.
Charlie Gordon
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Impressive given you have the skill. Frightening if taken out of context.Faded Image said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.