"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
you drop the chick after 2-3 dates if she doesnt put out
- Thread starter verysuave
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
I would say if she isn't showing good interest after the first few dates; drop her.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
but anyway unless i know shes a virgin, I'd wait til probably the 5th date before i start thinking what the ****. But if shes being a stupid ***** ****blocker, **** that.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Charlie Gordon
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DTOW... DATE Ten Other Women!
Seriously, you've got to be the judge of this stuff. Experience helps. Don't look to the peanut gallery for advice on handling the warm, beautiful woman in front of you. You've got to be spontaneous and confident. Women can sense it if you are neither of the above and that in and of itself will be the deal breaker!
You decide what you want. Maybe you're in a hurry to get to sex. Maybe you want an emotional connection. Maybe you're just happy to fool around with her or sleep next to her. You decide what you can and cannot do without in this relationship and base your decision on that.
Don't let these anonymous forum posters define "putting out" for you. Not every worthwhile relationship (and I use that term loosely) starts off hot and heavy. Some relationships take their time and others get off to a bang. Depends on the participants.
One criticism I have of my earlier years is that I lacked patience and optimism - I always assumed the worst and ran away from what could have been satisfying friendships, sex, and possibly more. Then again, there have been times when I was seeing someone and we were both aware of how it was going nowhere. Moving on was a good decision. How do you decide? Experience. DTOW.
Faded Image
Senior Don Juan
Faded Image
Senior Don Juan
, my mind set was "She'll only lay in my bed once before getting fvcked". The first night will be their familiarization to my room and bed. The second night, you bets believe she's getting fvcked.
Charlie Gordon
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Impressive given you have the skill. Frightening if taken out of context.Faded Image said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.