"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
you drop the chick after 2-3 dates if she doesnt put out
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
I would say if she isn't showing good interest after the first few dates; drop her.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
but anyway unless i know shes a virgin, I'd wait til probably the 5th date before i start thinking what the ****. But if shes being a stupid ***** ****blocker, **** that.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Charlie Gordon
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DTOW... DATE Ten Other Women!
Seriously, you've got to be the judge of this stuff. Experience helps. Don't look to the peanut gallery for advice on handling the warm, beautiful woman in front of you. You've got to be spontaneous and confident. Women can sense it if you are neither of the above and that in and of itself will be the deal breaker!
You decide what you want. Maybe you're in a hurry to get to sex. Maybe you want an emotional connection. Maybe you're just happy to fool around with her or sleep next to her. You decide what you can and cannot do without in this relationship and base your decision on that.
Don't let these anonymous forum posters define "putting out" for you. Not every worthwhile relationship (and I use that term loosely) starts off hot and heavy. Some relationships take their time and others get off to a bang. Depends on the participants.
One criticism I have of my earlier years is that I lacked patience and optimism - I always assumed the worst and ran away from what could have been satisfying friendships, sex, and possibly more. Then again, there have been times when I was seeing someone and we were both aware of how it was going nowhere. Moving on was a good decision. How do you decide? Experience. DTOW.
Faded Image
Senior Don Juan
Faded Image
Senior Don Juan
, my mind set was "She'll only lay in my bed once before getting fvcked". The first night will be their familiarization to my room and bed. The second night, you bets believe she's getting fvcked.
Charlie Gordon
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Impressive given you have the skill. Frightening if taken out of context.Faded Image said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.