"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You don't need women.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
.DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
Think back to any great man in history. Any one of them. You think they needed women? Hell no!
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
DJ's don't NEED ___________
not just necessarly women. We Want women, who doesn't? Don't **** yourself but my life isn't over if a girl doesn't like me
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Players do need women. But since they have so many women and so many options, they don't need ANY PARTICULAR WOMEN.
That's the key.
Anything else will end up being a contradiction and bullsh~t that you'll have to flush out of your head.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
) but his happyness is not dependant on having one."She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
These are opinions as to date. I am open to any better arguements if they exists.
One thing I do suggest, study everything that has to do with human behaivor whether it be history, religion, culture, psychology, anything. These things will help you put all the pieces together and see the bigger picture. Most importantly. learn to stand on principle. This defines who you are more than anything. When a woman knows that you have principles and are ready to defend them, then she will know that you are a man worth knowing.