You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
DJ no need women, DJ have many women.Originally posted by S0LID
gd luck with that. i don't understand why so many guys come here for help with women and end up persuading themselves they dont need one. Fair enough you want to build an empire but theres always time for women! While your focusing on not needing women some ugly guy out there is getting with your girl who doesnt deserve her.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Good. You understand.Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
I agree. Its nice to keep that in perspective. My g/f is pretty much leaving me and I am fine. It sucks, but I don't need her for happiness. Now I have more time to play guitar and work on my car.
Think back to any great man in history. Any one of them. You think they needed women? Hell no!
Yes!Originally posted by Brian20o2
its simple: A DJ doesnt need women to be happy, he may want a woman (or 3) but his happyness is not dependant on having one.