"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You don't need women.

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The real Don Juan don't need women. Women need Don Juan. :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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gd luck with that. i don't understand why so many guys come here for help with women and end up persuading themselves they dont need one. Fair enough you want to build an empire but theres always time for women! While your focusing on not needing women some ugly guy out there is getting with your girl who doesnt deserve her.
 

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Originally posted by S0LID
gd luck with that. i don't understand why so many guys come here for help with women and end up persuading themselves they dont need one. Fair enough you want to build an empire but theres always time for women! While your focusing on not needing women some ugly guy out there is getting with your girl who doesnt deserve her.
DJ no need women, DJ have many women. :D
 

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Yes but you dont just click your fingers and become a DJ. At the start there is a great need to get experience with girls, Id reccomend getting your heart walked all over. But yes as soon as you are a true DJ you'll get women without thinking of it and wont "need" 1 :).
 

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You remind me of George Bush. Full of rhetoric and no real truthful explanations.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I agree. Its nice to keep that in perspective. My g/f is pretty much leaving me and I am fine. It sucks, but I don't need her for happiness. Now I have more time to play guitar and work on my car.

Think back to any great man in history. Any one of them. You think they needed women? Hell no!
 

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that's the point.

DJ's don't NEED ___________


not just necessarly women. We Want women, who doesn't? Don't **** yourself but my life isn't over if a girl doesn't like me
 

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A real Don Juan doesn't feel the need to qualify :p
 

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I don't buy it.

Players do need women. But since they have so many women and so many options, they don't need ANY PARTICULAR WOMEN.

That's the key.

Anything else will end up being a contradiction and bullsh~t that you'll have to flush out of your head.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Dude, did you see Johnny Depp using a computer in the "Don Juan" movie even ONCE?

What I'm saying is, a real don juan doesn't need a computer so that he can make meaningless threads ;)
 

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
I agree. Its nice to keep that in perspective. My g/f is pretty much leaving me and I am fine. It sucks, but I don't need her for happiness. Now I have more time to play guitar and work on my car.

Think back to any great man in history. Any one of them. You think they needed women? Hell no!
Good. You understand. :D
 

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Originally posted by Brian20o2
its simple: A DJ doesnt need women to be happy, he may want a woman (or 3 ;) ) but his happyness is not dependant on having one.
Yes!
 

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Well. if we didn't need women, we wouldn't need to be don juans. Let's not delude ourselves. The point is: we don't need any particular woman. To every woman I meet I try to communicate the fact that if she dosen't fit my criteria, another woman can. That is the root of what we call challenge. It's all about competition. Women want to win. They can be very evil and conniving about it. This is why woman are attracted to married men, jerks, and men who represent power. These men represent worth in some way. With a married man, it's an obvious challenge because he's, well, married. With a jerk, she reasons he must have something going on because he dosen't need her approval (he's also not conveying he dosen't need women). A man who has some sort of authority simulates power, which is attractive. To say to a woman " I don't need women" means 3 things. You are either gay, a celibate priest, or somehow mentally or emotionally damaged.

These are opinions as to date. I am open to any better arguements if they exists.

One thing I do suggest, study everything that has to do with human behaivor whether it be history, religion, culture, psychology, anything. These things will help you put all the pieces together and see the bigger picture. Most importantly. learn to stand on principle. This defines who you are more than anything. When a woman knows that you have principles and are ready to defend them, then she will know that you are a man worth knowing.
 
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