"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You Can't Force Someone to Like You

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Black Widow Void said:
Speaking of "sales" I've got a strong suspicion that you didn't just join to seek advice... but instead to pitch and peddle.
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Yes, he did it for precisely that reason. I ran a quick Google search and found this exact same post on reddit from two months ago. His nickname is the same as his website, where he offers some sort of coaching.
 
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killyourinnerloser said:
I came to GIVE advice, not seek it. If helping others and giving back to communities that helped me counts as "pitching and peddling", then sure.

You also just proved what I wrote - "Not everyone is going to like you". ;)
-Andy
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It's okay to give advice. Just don't hide your real intentions by trying to build up rapport with a pre-written text, so you can sell something later on. Not that I believe someone here would even consider your product in the first place.
 
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killyourinnerloser said:
Am I telling you to sign up for my coaching? Did I even mention I have a site or give coaching? YOU brought it up. And then mentioned my site (cheers for that, I guess?) And then said I'm guilty of a future crime that hasn't even been committed. Do you always go around accusing people of crimes you've literally imagined?
And yeah dude, content creators share their work - why would you write for nobody to read it?
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Okay, I've came back to this thread three times and every time you've updated this comment. Why are you so defensive? Do you feel guilty? If not, you shouldn't even care what I or anybody else has to say about your altruistic mission. In the end you're giving back to the community, right?

By the way, read the forum rules. You're allowed to put your website in your signature file. Whether you wanted to advertise something or not, you're not allowed to do so via:

"Advertising is not allowed. You may, however, post useful advice and include a link to your site in your signature file" @Atom Smasher
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HyenaPrince said:
Okay, I've came back to this thread three times and every time you've updated this comment. Why are you so defensive?
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It's old school PUA tactics: AMOGing. IRL, it consists of spreading your legs as widely as possible, talking too loudly, negging, wearing stupid accessories, etc.

On forums, it means trolling, spamming, and generally engaging in endless passive-aggressive mind games.

PUA's are stuck developmentally at age 12 right when they are entering puberty, and stay at that developmental age throughout their lifetime.

There's no point in arguing with them. They will always have a small but gullible and even eager audience, ready to cough up thousands of dollars on fake coaching and advice.
 
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"You Can't Force Someone to Like You"

No, but you can pay someone to like you.

They're called 'hookers'. :rofl:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey guys! You can buy the love for the money. For example, buy a dog and that's will be true love
 
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