"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You can simply walk past a girl play her off as another human being and ignore that she's hot and not think in your mind that you failed in some way.


When you've learn that there is a time for everything you tend to slow down your thoughts and concentrate on what you want or need and it shows through body language which equals PURE confidence.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Boner da Stoner

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but is that the way a male AW works? NOOOO he has to hit on every girl, and every one of them has to LOOOOOOVE him!

hehe I hope your only joking ;)
 

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No what Dimebag says makes sense.

Know that there is alot of time in life. Walk away. There are others.

It is so weird because sometimes it is easy to want every girl to like you.

But all women despite their faces vary in terms of their personality and mental stability. So you could get one hot chick, but another one would turn you down.

It is easy to be a male AW. But better to be calm and know there are tons of women out there.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yes. Good post, as long as it's not simply a rationalization for not engaging her if you really wanted to.

One should have the attitude that there's an abundance of women out there, and no one is so much more important than the others until there's a good reason for her to be.
 
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