"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You are one step further from the next man when..

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You can simply walk past a girl play her off as another human being and ignore that she's hot and not think in your mind that you failed in some way.


When you've learn that there is a time for everything you tend to slow down your thoughts and concentrate on what you want or need and it shows through body language which equals PURE confidence.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Boner da Stoner

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but is that the way a male AW works? NOOOO he has to hit on every girl, and every one of them has to LOOOOOOVE him!

hehe I hope your only joking ;)
 

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No what Dimebag says makes sense.

Know that there is alot of time in life. Walk away. There are others.

It is so weird because sometimes it is easy to want every girl to like you.

But all women despite their faces vary in terms of their personality and mental stability. So you could get one hot chick, but another one would turn you down.

It is easy to be a male AW. But better to be calm and know there are tons of women out there.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes. Good post, as long as it's not simply a rationalization for not engaging her if you really wanted to.

One should have the attitude that there's an abundance of women out there, and no one is so much more important than the others until there's a good reason for her to be.
 
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