"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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You are one step further from the next man when..

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Dimebag_Darrell

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You can simply walk past a girl play her off as another human being and ignore that she's hot and not think in your mind that you failed in some way.


When you've learn that there is a time for everything you tend to slow down your thoughts and concentrate on what you want or need and it shows through body language which equals PURE confidence.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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but is that the way a male AW works? NOOOO he has to hit on every girl, and every one of them has to LOOOOOOVE him!

hehe I hope your only joking ;)
 
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No what Dimebag says makes sense.

Know that there is alot of time in life. Walk away. There are others.

It is so weird because sometimes it is easy to want every girl to like you.

But all women despite their faces vary in terms of their personality and mental stability. So you could get one hot chick, but another one would turn you down.

It is easy to be a male AW. But better to be calm and know there are tons of women out there.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yes. Good post, as long as it's not simply a rationalization for not engaging her if you really wanted to.

One should have the attitude that there's an abundance of women out there, and no one is so much more important than the others until there's a good reason for her to be.
 
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