"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You can simply walk past a girl play her off as another human being and ignore that she's hot and not think in your mind that you failed in some way.


When you've learn that there is a time for everything you tend to slow down your thoughts and concentrate on what you want or need and it shows through body language which equals PURE confidence.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Boner da Stoner

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but is that the way a male AW works? NOOOO he has to hit on every girl, and every one of them has to LOOOOOOVE him!

hehe I hope your only joking ;)
 

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No what Dimebag says makes sense.

Know that there is alot of time in life. Walk away. There are others.

It is so weird because sometimes it is easy to want every girl to like you.

But all women despite their faces vary in terms of their personality and mental stability. So you could get one hot chick, but another one would turn you down.

It is easy to be a male AW. But better to be calm and know there are tons of women out there.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bonhomme

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Yes. Good post, as long as it's not simply a rationalization for not engaging her if you really wanted to.

One should have the attitude that there's an abundance of women out there, and no one is so much more important than the others until there's a good reason for her to be.
 
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